Living Single
Posted on March 27, 2009 with No Comments
Living single is not comfortable and it’s a kind of painful existence for some people. It just like another color of life which is appearing by itself.
For instances, dating. We are always living with great hopes. It is a realization that there is a piece of hope after a failure. And if the “ex” was not the one, at least it appears we are headed towards the right way. This is the consolation of being single, which enables us to cope. Everyday, we are struggling to keep those hopes burning and alive. What we do is convince our egos that living single is a matter of choice as we wait for the right person to enter into our lives. In a way this is true; it’s what in essence, what each single human being is doing. The clock might be ticking away and the hair thinning away, but we are hopeful, we will arrive there eventually.
Nothing is comparable by being single, we must facing more frustrations.Sometime we don’t know what is the reason. What happened? Where did things started on a wrong path? Why did it happen? Where are all the right males and females? Could be they have vanished or snapped up. Could be they are not there and we are living lies. Then you remind yourself of the friends you know in wonderful relationships and the kind of proof you have always wanted is thrown your way. But the questioning of your being single continues. You could even find yourself questioning your judgment, even wondering whether we have totally missed our model chance to enjoy a wholesome relationship. Could be we are choosy. Maybe it is not your fault. It really can’t be yours.
Valentine time reminds us of our solitary nature and why our single status should never be forever. You feel that this year however, all will bring a new era and you will be single no more. People’s hearts are set on a couple of potential beings and we are hopeful that things might lead somewhere.
For married couples, they are often left thinking that grass is greener across the other side of the blue line. Further, those in harsh relationships are in constant dream of being single and the kind of freedom that come with it. A single individual is respected by those in fiery and hellish relationships. Sometimes it is nice to be single, until the cupid arrows haven’t found you yet.
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