Posted on May 22, 2009 with No Comments
1. Know that it is ok to fail. A key to maintaining high self worth is to acknowledge that failure is part of life. If you’re not failing, you’re not growing. Take risks and learn from them if you fail. Failure is only acknowledged when you have stopped trying.
2. Learn a new skill. You’ll increase what you know, what you can talk about, and you will become a more interesting person. It will allow you to better enjoy all life has to offer and in turn will make you view each day as something new and exciting. Take a yoga/martial arts/painting/cooking/language/computer/music class, etc.
3. Exercise every day. There are literally thousands of positive reasons to exercise. It will decrease your bad cholesterol, increase your good cholesterol, lower blood triglycerides, decrease blood pressure, decrease stress, helps you lose weight, gain muscle, increase your self image, increase your self confidence, fend off heart disease, and give you more energy throughout the day. This run on sentence just touches the surface of the benefits of living an active life style.
4. Eat a top notch diet. You will feel better about yourself and have the energy to remain positive through the day. Eat to live, don’t live to eat.
5. Care about your appearance. Walk tall, shoulders back, head up, eyes forward (NOT at the ground). Look people directly in the eyes when you speak with them. Do not fear eye contact. Don’t stare like a statue though; you don’t want to look creepy either. Look away once in a while. When you adopt confident body language you will become more confident. When you adopt submissive and defensive body language you will be feel less confident. Changing the state of your body will change the state of your mind.
-Gary
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Posted on May 20, 2009 with No Comments
If you put a woman up on a pedestal and worship her like a deity it is a guaranteed recipe for failure. If she feels like she has overwhelming power over you in any interaction ranging from long term relationship to first time meeting she will conscious or unconsciously not respect you and worst of all…
This will kill any remnants of attraction she may have felt for you
When a woman feels like she has you in the palm of her hand, there is no need for her to vie for your attention. The game will be over before it started and that’s boring. Boredom is the enemy.
There is a reason why the guys who know what they’re doing when first talking to a group of girls totally ignore the one girl they are actually interested in. Think about it. First, observe that by ignoring the woman they are interested in they are doing the opposite of putting her on a pedestal. This is a psychological tactic that will inject curiosity, give you a mysterious air, and best of all make her feel like she will have to work to get your attention. This is more effective on hotter women as they are used to being drooled on by every guy who’s eyeballs give her the up and down. Nice, now the tables are turned. Rather than being the pursuer, you may now be the perused.
Men who put women on a pedastel will be dominated and controlled like a boring puppet. Do the opposite, but don’t be a jackass either.
-Gary
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Posted on May 18, 2009 with No Comments
1. Know that you are immensely valuable. Remind yourself everyday of what you have accomplished at work, social settings, finances, etc.
2. Know that your time is valuable. You have the right to be annoyed when people waste it by not being on time, keeping you waiting, bailing on you, etc.
3. Know that you have the ability to learn and accomplish anything with enough persistence, blood, sweat and tears.
-Gary
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